“A house is not a home without a pet.” ~Anonymous
When I was growing up, we always had a wide variety of pets that included dogs, cats, mice, gerbils, guinea pigs, fish and birds. We were also fortunate to be around farm animals as well on my father’s side of the family. It was very normal for families to have at the very least a dog or a cat. In other words, most families had pets when I was growing up and the pets were very much a part of the family. It was also expected that we children had to carry a portion of the responsibility in the care, training, and raising of the pets we were allowed to own. As an animal lover, this was pure heaven to me. Pets can really benefit the lives of children in so many ways, including with their health.
According to a recent survey which was referenced in an article on http://LifeWithDogs.tv, “…children raised with pets feel more confident, caring and responsible than their pet-less peers…Commissioned by Pets at Home, the survey of 1,000 pet-owning children suggests that those who share a home with one or more pets are not just physically healthier – they also enjoy mental health benefits from pet ownership.” (http://www.lifewithdogs.tv/2012/07/survey-children-raised-with-pets-are-more-confident-caring/)
All through my years growing up with animals they gave me a sense of being loved unconditionally regardless of what others thought about me. That gave me a sense of purpose as well as a sense of belonging. Children have so much to overcome in this adult world of ours. Animals can give a child not only a sense of purpose and responsibility, but also a companion who loves them unconditionally with no expectations other than to be loved in return.
Some parents may worry that having a pet will distract a child from their other responsibilities such as household chores and their studies. But in fact, the survey mentioned in the article above states the contrary: pets have a positive effect upon a child’s studies as they bring calming to a child allowing them to better focus.
By taking responsibility for a pet, a child can learn to be much more focused, confident and grounded in their responsibilities when they are older.
In my work as an animal naturopath, I focus on teaching my clients about the laws of health mandated in nature which goes for all living beings – human and animal alike. And they are as follows: proper species appropriate nutrition, exercise, fresh water, sunshine, moderation, fresh air, proper rest and trust in the Divine. By following these laws, we, our children and our pets will be healthy – and it is a lot easier to encourage your children to live up to the natural laws of health when they have pets to care for and interact with in their lives.
A child playing outside with her dog throwing a ball, running in the fresh air, hanging out in the sunshine is going to be far healthier physically and mentally, than a child that lives a sedentary, indoor life. The child will be able to interact with their pet as a companion that does not judge them. They will be laughing, playing and running if they have a dog to play with letting off the stress that builds up if they are sedentary. And the pets will be healthy too! Since stress is a precursor to ill health, it naturally stands to reason that a child that has less stress will be healthier.
Our sweet dog that recently passed away, used to sit outside and watch the neighborhood boys play football and then try to mimic what they were doing with his own balls in the yard. I used to wish he could play with those boys as it would have been so good for him and for the children as well. The children always stopped by to say hello to him. And every morning our dog knew exactly what time the children would be walking to the bus stop so he would be waiting at the end of our fence to watch them as they walked by. The children always shouted hello to him as they walked by.
My husband and I began walking the fields, arroyos and hills in my neighborhood because our Great Dane dog needed a lot more exercise than just a casual daily walk. He would dash and run all over the hills and fields as we walked along keeping an eye on him and getting our own exercise, fresh air and sunshine as well. And because I am always cognizant of the nutritional needs of pets, he got the diet of a domestic carnivore. This has made us much more focused on proper nutrition for ourselves as well. When a child is allowed to participate in the care of a pet from feeding them to exercise, it naturally teaches the child the laws of health. In addition, it teaches them responsibility which can then translate to confidence in their ability to care for another living being.
When I was a child my parents expected us to learn about the needs and nature of the pets in our care. I chose to study their anatomy, physiology, nutritional and physical needs, etc., as part of learning all I could about the pets in my care. By encouraging your child to learn these things as a requirement in having pets, you have encouraged their further education with motivation. Not only will they be much more inclined to properly care for the pet but you’ve given them another element to their overall education that will benefit them in their eventual role as a contributing societal adult.
By having all the pets I had in my life growing up, I learned about respect, honor, courage, integrity, caring, loyalty, commitment, responsibility, forgiveness and most of all about love. They enrich our lives with their antics and shenanigans. They make us laugh and they make us cry. They bring us joy and they bring us sorrow. They help us to really live life. Life is much too sterile and sedate without pets. They stretch us outside of our protective boundaries as I would never have ventured into the hills of my desert home without my dog leading the way. Pets also help us and our children to make friends that we may never have considered – other pet loving people such as ourselves. Pets free us and our children from our own manufactured boundaries and free us to befriend other pet lovers from different walks of life.
In an article series I wrote back in 2008, that was the precursor to authoring my book, Animals Taught Me That, I wrote the following about what animals have taught me which I believe can greatly benefit the overall well-being and health of our children:
Leadership is not dominance. True leaders serve the greater good. Horses taught me that.
Forgiveness and meekness is true power and strength. Dogs taught me that.
Healing can be as simple as a purr. Cats taught me that.
Dancing and singing with utter joy and abandon is fun. A bird by the name of Snowball taught me that.
Flight only comes after adversity. Moths and butterflies taught me that.
Love is true freedom. Animals taught me that.
“Until one has loved an animal, a part of one’s soul remains unawakened.” ~Anatole France
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Copyright © October 2012. No part of this article may be reproduced in any form without the written consent of the Author/Publisher. This article is intended to be educational. However, it is not intended to be a substitute for diagnosis or treatment from a qualified animal health professional. Dr. Kim Bloomer and Aspenbloom Pet Care, do not assume any legal responsibility for misuse of the products discussed in this article.
Dr. Kim Bloomer is an animal naturopath consulting on canine and feline nutrition and wellness. In addition, Dr. Kim is a proficient blogger, writer, speaker and presenter on natural pet care as well as the Co-Founder of the American Council of Animal Naturopathy. She is the author/co-author of three books including Animals Taught Me That and Essential Oils in Animal Care: A Naturopathic Approach co-authored with her two colleagues (2014). Dr. Kim’s articles have been featured in various publications in both print and online. Visit her Website:www.AspenbloomPetCare.com
PHOTO ATTRIBUTION: Donnie Bloomer and Meshach the Great Dane by Dr. Kim Bloomer, Copyright 2012 All Rights Reserved.